There is nothing that is impossible if a man puts his mind to it. It has always been said how powerful ones thoughts can be in controlling their own actions and that of those around them. However, seldom does anyone actually use this philosophy when it comes to their problems in bed. The reasons why people do not do this are plenty and are not important what is however vital is that the mind is the key on how to last longer in bed for men.
The fact is that it is all inside the head. If you are constantly worried about orgasm and wish to stop it then you are trying to control the orgasm center in the head which in turn always leads to faster orgasms. Instead try to divert your attention elsewhere for the duration that you feel like ejaculating. Get back in the game once the feeling has passed over you.